The question – ‘’Changing your partner is it an illusion or a reality’’? It is a question that most singles are very optimistic they can achieve, while married people dance round it but mostly think it is an illusion. The reality is that most married people started out being very optimistic about the changes they intend to effect in their partners. Having embarked on such journeys over time without much results to show for it, slowly but surely, they began to embrace reality. Sometimes due to ignorance we all ascribe to love,......